Mind Tricks: When the Brain Protects, Hides, or Misleads
- Stephanie Smith
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
🧩 The brain is powerful — powerful enough to heal, to survive, and sometimes… to trick us.
Sometimes the mind creates identities to protect us.
Sometimes it produces physical symptoms with no medical explanation.
Sometimes it pushes a person into harmful behaviors in an attempt to meet a deep internal need.
None of this means someone is “crazy” or “making it up.”
It means the brain is doing whatever it can to survive pain it was never meant to carry alone.
Today, we’re breaking down three often-misunderstood disorders in a way that brings clarity — not shame.
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🌑 1. Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID)
When the mind splits to survive what the body cannot escape.
DID forms as a response to severe or prolonged trauma.
It is not a choice.
It is not attention-seeking.
It is not Hollywood drama.
It is a protective system built by a mind that endured too much, too early, with too little safety.
Core Features
Two or more distinct identities (often called alters)
Memory gaps
Identity confusion
Depersonalization or derealization
Behavioral shifts that feel “not like me”
Treatment
Healing focuses on:
trauma-informed psychotherapy
helping identities communicate
integration or coordination of parts
DID is what happens when the mind says:
“If I can’t escape the trauma, I will create someone who can.”
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🌫️ 2. Somatic Symptom Disorders
When emotional pain becomes physical.
These disorders don’t mean someone is “faking” symptoms.
The pain is real.
The fatigue is real.
The fear is real.
What’s missing is a clear medical explanation — because the symptoms are often driven by stress, trauma, or emotional overwhelm rather than illness.
Core Features
Persistent physical complaints (pain, fatigue, stomach issues, etc.)
High levels of health-related anxiety
Symptoms that feel bigger than any medical cause
Treatment
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Stress reduction
Learning to understand the body’s signals
Coordination with medical care
Somatic symptoms aren’t “all in your head.”
They’re your body screaming what your mouth never got permission to say.
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🔍 3. Factitious Disorder
When someone creates symptoms — not for money, not for drugs — but for an internal emotional need.
Factitious disorder is one of the most misunderstood conditions out there. It involves intentionally producing or exaggerating symptoms, but the motivation isn’t external. It’s internal — often rooted in trauma, unmet emotional needs, or early attachment wounds.
Core Behaviors
falsifying symptoms or injuries
manipulating test results
self-inflicted harm
inducing illness in oneself or another (Munchausen by proxy)
Treatment
This disorder is extremely complex because it often involves:
denial
fear of abandonment
deeply rooted emotional trauma
Therapy focuses on:
supportive, non-confrontational psychotherapy
addressing underlying psychological pain
family therapy when needed
It’s not about deception for gain — it’s about a desperate internal attempt to feel seen, cared for, or significant.
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💛 The Breaking Barrs Perspective
Every disorder listed here has one thing in common:
✨ They form as a response to pain, trauma, or unmet emotional needs.
People don’t wake up wanting to dissociate, develop unexplained pain, or create symptoms.
These are survival strategies — the mind’s last-ditch effort to cope.
At Breaking Barrs, we don’t judge the coping mechanism.
We honor the survivor behind it.
We meet people where they are:
in the confusion,
in the shame,
in the exhaustion,
in the “I don’t know why my mind is doing this.”
Because none of these conditions mean someone is broken.
They mean someone has endured more than their nervous system was ever designed to handle — and they need understanding, not blame.
Healing begins when someone finally hears:
“You’re not crazy. You’re hurting. And you don’t have to hurt alone anymore.”


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